Growth Happens in Unlikely Ways
If you have ever felt like time was standing still and just repeating itself over and over, rather than anything new happening you know what it's like to feel like you aren't growing as a person.
Similarly, you have probably felt at some times in your life in the middle of chaos, where things are changing so rapidly and mostly out of your control that you are being 'forced' to grow whether you want to or not.
What if there was a mid point, that was still challenging enough to grow, but without the severe and extreme emotions that come in chaos, so that you could find your own rhythm in the universe that allows you to grow in a more complete way.
This is not saying that you can control all external factors, that's not going to happen, what it is saying is learning to handle internal markers so that you recognise situations and patterns before they become uncontrollable.
Think about a campfire and how it starts out small with a spark and then it slowly increases in size and fury and you can help it to get bigger or smaller depending on your needs at the time.
We get to choose what our internal boundaries are.
When you have set your ideal conditions, then you can allow change to happen within them and say no to anything outside of them.
Sometimes by saying no to one thing, we actually invite in a whole new scenario that actually suits us better.
The only certainty in life is change, that's one that is told to us when we are kids, but what isn't talked about is the rate of change.
If we don't want to grow, all we simply do is live in a 'small' world that we create for ourselves whereby we repeat the same patterns day in and day out. Some people do this to control their safety ... but are they truly living?
If life is about change and growth, then what do we learn living like that?
Have you also heard the saying - ask and you shall receive?
Our mind is setup as a problem solver naturally and so when we ask a question whether in our heads or out loud, our brain starts searching for the answer. We know this if we are looking for lost keys we start to 'search' both mentally and physically.
What if we could use this same theory for bigger questions:
What career is best suited to me?
How can I find my next date?
Is this the best time to have children?
Should we invest our money in ...?
How can I best utilise the limited time I have on earth?
When will I be happy with 'enough'?
I challenge you to start posing really random and 'out there' types of questions to yourself in the mirror and see how it shapes your day.
I can almost certainly say that something different will happen for you, different people and different experiences will be brought into your world to try to answer the question.
I love the idea of asking absurd questions - something that I don't think there is an answer to ... and watching the magic of the universe weave itself until some form of answer comes to the surface.
Now is the time for you to sit and decide if you are wanting to stay on the same path you are currently walking or whether you want to take a detour into the unknown and break open your entire world just to see what makes you tick and how to best bring your unique frequency and skills into the world.
Only if you truly are ready to let go and say goodbye of your habits should this interest you.
Fast change can be painful.
No lies ... this is not an easy 'lala land'.
There will be moments of joy and ecstasy and pleasure.
They will be worked for and the reward will truly be worth it.
If this feels like it's for you ... press below.
